It's so exciting when your chubby little baby begins to walk, or 'toddle' their way into a toddler.  But with that comes the challenges of feeding and introducing all sorts of wonderful foods to this little person.  A lot of times, it seems they are barely eating enough to sustain a bird, let alone a body who is constantly on the move! How do you know how much to feed them?

Generally toddlers are very good at listening to their hunger and satiety cues.  Sometimes as parents, we don't trust their cues and think "Surely they must be hungry, they haven't eaten in 3 hours!"  This is where the feeding relationship comes in.

The parent's role is to buy the right food, and prepare it in a nutritious and creative way.  The child determines how much, when and if they eat.  Erratic eating habits are normal for little kids - they may eat well one day and practically nothing the next day.  It's better to look at your child's eating habits on a weekly basis - not daily - it's much less stressful that way!  I strongly believe in this feeding relationship and definitely use it with my children.  We are all happier when we are focused on our own roles.

There are however some basic guidelines as far as portion sizes go.  It is helpful to know if the portion you are serving your toddler is appropriate for their needs.  Here are the basic guidelines for daily amounts and portion sizes for your toddler.

If you don't like measuring, a sectioned plate is a great way to estimate portion sizes.  Check out our Shop for a selection of these fun and healthy plates!  Here are a few examples of toddler-size meals.

Peanut Butter Toast, Peaches, Boiled Egg, Hash browns, Yogurt

Barbeque Chicken, Orange Slices, Steamed Green Peas, and Sweet Potato Crescent Roll

Chili, Baked Corn Chips, Green Salad, Grapes

Grilled Chicken, Brown Rice, Steamed Green Beans, Grapes, Blueberries, Strawberries

Homemade chicken nuggets, Green Pepper, Carrots, Orange Slices, Multigrain Roll

So what if your toddler doesn't finish their plate?  It is OK!!  Offer them a variety of nutritious foods, be an example by eating those foods yourself, and don't stress!  Remember, toddlers are good at listening to their hunger cues.  Being consistent in offering healthy choices and having them stocked in your pantry and fridge is one of the best things you can do to get your kids to eat healthy foods.  What will be on your plate today?