Many are reading that passage saying, “Uh, yeah. Sure.” So just how can you get to the point of “fearless feeding?” First, as we do for you here at Super Healthy Kids, you can plan ahead! Through planning, you are armed with a food plan which means you will not be in a bind of time constraints, stressing over what’s for dinner to then give in to your finicky eater’s preferences. Through your planning, you can also take time figuring out exactly what your child likes, what foods you have served and how many times you have offered that particular food. Earlier this year, we had a guest post from a pediatric occupational therapist who specializes in feeding difficulties and sensory integration. She advises making a list of all foods your child will eat at least 50% of the time. Place these foods into simple categories and then see if there are any patterns in your child’s choices. Read more here, where this great plan is detailed. Remember, it does take several times before a child can acquire a true like or dislike of a food. Here’s another simple strategy or thought process to try:
- Offer choices: This means offering two different types of veggies, such as “would you like broccoli or cauliflower?” Your child is making the choice in what to eat, as well as how much to eat. You, the caregiver, is providing the healthy food option.
- Offer at least one food item you know they will like. This will take the pressure off of you both. He sees a familiar food and you know he will not starve.
- Offer your child the pen and paper to do the meal planning. Yes! Especially when there are older children in the household, they will love helping out. Check out our printable section where you will find some fun, kid inspired meal planning pages.
- Offer new foods in a fun environment. My kids love at home movie night. So I take advantage of this fun mealtime and use it to offer new foods. I have gotten my daughter to try orange and yellow bell peppers and my son raw cauliflower during one of these moments. Although they still need some exposures, I am thrilled they have at least tried these new foods.
What if your child is older, and the selectiveness persists? This is when your pediatrician may need to intervene because your child may have a sensory, mechanical or medical condition that needs to be addressed. Here’s another great guest post of a determined mom of an autistic child finds great success using child-specific tactics to add more nutrient-dense food choices to her son’s plate. Read her amazing story here, and see how her methods are similar to some thoughts mentioned previously. Bottom line: • Be the role model • Be patient • Be consistent • Be calm • Be the one who offers nutritious foods
Beautifully stated in Fearless Feeding, “You’re doing a good job if your child enjoys eating and is being exposed to a variety of foods.” So enjoy your dinner table family time and keep offering those nutritious foods because, our children’s “taste buds will grow accustomed to the newer fare.” (Dr. David Katz, author of Disease-Proof).
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